You’re an engineer, I’m an engineer, this is simple.

Have 26 extra super happy days per year, have 25x9 or 225 unhappy days per year.

Or, have 50x5 or 250 pretty happy days per year.   


Reality is, once you start considering leaving, it’s time to rip off the bandaid because you know it’s time to go, you just aren’t willing to take the plunge until your misery index gets higher.  Do your self and your family a favor and jump soon.