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Litchfield MN. | I think condolescences would be very considerate. They are now suffering a loss. Treat the situation like you would a death and let them know you are reaching out to them in their time of pain. I think you'd be surprised how much they would appreciate it. They probably are feeling pretty alone and lost right now.
I agree--do not talk about that they would have been the better parents. Pray with them and help them work with God's will. I like to tell people that it's darkest before the dawn, Just be patient and something bright and wonderful will enter their lives.
My mother was adopted at 3 years old. She was an only child and had a wonderful life. She held no ill-will for her birth mother giving her up and never felt the need to find out who she was. She had a good life and didn't feel the need to stir up any old wounds.
Being there is the best you can do for your friends right now. That 's great that you want to.
Mrs. Fefernuse
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pickle regarding adoption
