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SE IL | Without knowing more details it's kinda hard to say. If she is (or can be) a responsible adult, has the blessing of her parents (or whoever she will be living with), and a good support network (you don't say how close you live-and if you are willing to help) I don't see why she shouldn't keep the baby. However, with all that said, maybe she should go visit the adoptive parents' home to see what they are able to offer the child and if they would be willing to include her and/or her family into their family. I certainly don't think she should feel bad about changing her mind if that's what she wants and can handle. "Family" means a lot of different things to different folks these days but the main thing is to put the needs of the child first and foremost-and I think those needs are love and stability. So I guess however that can happen is what should occur. Good luck whatever she decides. I'll say a prayer for all of you. | |
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pickle regarding adoption
