Oh my I know that feeling; being alone even when surrounded by those whom love you. Don't know how can help but you don't need to convince anyone you need to get something going on; you need to convince yourself.

I have friends that have waited and waited too and they're involved in activities like being a big brother and other kinds of events which help others; ya know those unsolicited acts of kindness type stuff. Anyway many haven't found a special one but they have found companions a plenty.

You can start by praying that she is ready to meet you...go ahead pray for her cause she needs that now.

Be blessed