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North of London | I have no words to say to you except my condolences.
Today is one month since my wife died.
Yesterday I decided it was time to login to AgTalk again and this thread was the second or third I read.
Although I am a month further along the path you are on, your thread triggered memories for me and I was unable to post a reply to you.
I again looked at the thread later yesterday and had no words to add.
So this morning I will try again.
It is a new normal that we are on and each of us will travel it in different ways but we must go on just as the sun gets up every morning we do too and hopefully we find a way to continue with family to help.
One thing I have read and keep repeating to myself is at least Sheila does not have the hurt I do so she is saved from that and my life will go on for at least a while yet.
It is hard meeting friends and neighbours since I know it is hard for them too but slowly I am moving on.
We have dragged things out since our plans are a memorial service later when we will spread her ashes and I am not sure if that is better or worse than your way of dealing with it with burial soon after the death.
Be strong and I am convinced things will get better with time. | |
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Hardest day of my life yesterday.
