remember the best things in life aren't things at all.  you'll be alright. If you got everything done you planned you would plan more so be happy. enjoy the kids.

  don't take the neighbors to serious, I like to have what i call a neighbor project... One of those you really never intend to be finished, the neighbors ask about it all the time... takes their minds of the real problems at hand.  Their wives ain't so hard on them either.. works for us.