If you have been married to a woman for quite a while, even is she wasn't that good, has to be the most painful and disorienting thing a guy can go through.

Good luck and if you get the hankering to get hooked up with the same type woman you just divorced just pick up a handy table lamp, jerk the wires out of the base, place the two bare wire ends on your testicles, and plug it in for a few seconds. It will be less painful than going through the second divorce and might keep you from making the same mistake twice. I was lucky and learned from first wife mistakes and got a good one second time around. Fortunately for me didn't need to use the table lamp procedure.

John