Your Dad ever explain you don't stand any taller by trying to knock other's down ??

Yah, I didn't think so. 

If you had followed along I was asking questions, and offering possible ideas, as you don't see or understand I've been there done that and got the teeshirt.  And finally Jon understood I wasn't trying to tear anyone down, AND,, I also understand Jon S is probably pulling his hair out trying to figure out how to keep barns from going down.

Hence his post:

 " Yeah, I really do need a vacation. And some serious sleep. Somewhere warm. lol."

What has been the sum total of your contribution ??  Aside from running along behind and trying to "whizz on the shoes" after the situation has been discussed and resolved??

Jon S, (and other guys in his position)  I can understand,, he's stressed and having a real battle in front of him.

You're just running around afterwards leaving wet spots on the carpet.