Had a good friend commit suicide in my yard with my gun, when I went to get a haircut.

And,,,,,,,,   I was a trained professional in spotting suicide risks. He didn't set off any of the "triggers" that alerts anyone to a suicide risk.

Someone at risk for suicide can be awful hard to spot.

Nobody gets to sit in sanctimonious judgement on this one.

It's awful the family will have to have to deal with what he has done. The after effects of the entire situation will effect the family for-ever.